How to overcome a failed friendship?

Firstly, You need to take a step back and ask yourself. Do i benefit from this person’s company or friendship emotionally (Don’t be that one douche who uses people)? Does this person genuinely make me happy and isn’t toxic? Can i see us staying friends in the near future? If the answer is no , Just walk away. You won’t need them in your life. If your now saying, but i need them for class, or I’ll be lonely then let me ask you this. Is that a friendship?

Whats a friendship?

Google definition> the emotions or conduct of friends; the state of being friends.

Whats your definition? For me its an emotional supporting connection, i share with people that genuinely makes me a happier person, One that is full of love and enjoyment, we can grow and develop together and make our lives that much better by a minimal social interaction.

If you don’t or can’t have that connection with that person, then are they really worth the effort? You don’t need toxic people in your life. No one does. So save yourself the trouble and just walk away and, you’ll be much happier. But yet again, I’m a random stranger, on the internet, I can’t tell you how to live your life, but i can tell you my opinion, and give you things to take from and think about. I surround myself with people i love and care about. People that are toxic are non existent in my life, because i do not benefit from there presence. They make me feel nothing but pain, and every attempt i ever try to get close or have a meaningful heart-filled relationship goes down the gutter, So i don’t bother.

Hope this helps 🙂

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